ABOUT YOU WOMEN WHO COMPLAIN ABOUT FINDING A ‘GOOD MAN’.

Good men are everywhere, all over the place. The only problem is, women don’t appreciate good men. Most women are too immature to even know what a good man is. Though ‘good’ is relative, I know, however there are some characteristics which could formulate a general definition of a good man. 

A good man is someone who will respect his lady, be honest with her, support her, and care about her.

HOW.THA.HELL.YOU.WANT.A.GOOD.MAN when you DON’T respect him? You have your guy friends calling you at 12 am. You’re on the internet flirting with other guys (or girls, I don’t judge). Yet, you want him to respect your feelings? Come on son.  [Also on http://www.fumezz.ca/blogs/ ]

Some women are attracted to the ‘all swag’ type of guy who worships the latest fashion trends and makes an effort to be ‘fly’. Said dude don’t even open the door for you to get in the car. Said dude didn’t know he should pull out the chair for you at dinner before you sit, the said dude doesn’t know the common ‘Ladies before gentlemen’.  Meanwhile, there is a ‘good man’ watching all this and shaking his head. Half of you don’t even respect yourselves.

“In a relationship, any relationship, complete honesty is always needed. In fact, honesty should be part of the relationship’s foundation. The principle behind it is that basically, no one likes being lied to, and if a relationship is to flourish, it should not be peppered with lies”. - Anna Lynn C. Sibal

Honesty isn’t only about telling your partner if, when, or where you cheated. It is also about fully expressing how you feel about each other. How else is he going to know you like your hair pulled if you don’t tell him? How is he going to know you don’t like him calling his/ your female friends “dear” and “babe”, if you don’t tell him?

Women keeping saying they want a smart man who can have a good conversation with them and all they do is sit and watch MTV. Yes. Watching the Jersey Shore can cause you to be stupid and make you unable to find a good man. When was the last time you even read a book? Not a cosmo, a book a good, deep, mind blowing novel? Can’t remember?

Maaaaaaaaaan! I’m saying. If u want a man, get breasts. If u wants a good man start acting like it. The world doesn’t owe you a good man because you are a girl. Like Wtf? This TV/Hollywood version of the ideal man has got many of you thinking life owes you something. Start appreciating that ‘good morning’ instead of the ‘baybeee!’.

‘Good men’ don’t come in a box with a bow at your door steps. You have to earn one. Likewise a good woman.

S.Sweetness

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